Love-Shy Websites
With so little help available for love-shys, the internet provides critical resources.
Love-shy.com is one of the original websites for love-shys with a free download copy of Gilmartin's Shyness & Love.
The wikipedia love-shyness article provides a good summary of Gilmartin's book. However, it's encyclopedic format limits its content to proven and documented facts about love-shyness, which are few.
A love-shy wrote 21 Man Rules for other love-shy and incel men.
Love-Shy Online Discussion Forums
Since love-shys do not yet have in-person support groups, joining one of the following groups is critical.
Yahoo!
Group loveshy_drgilmartin
Yahoo also hosts a women-only
love-shy group, but its participation appears minimal these
days.
General Dating Help
The following websites are more the how to pick up hot chicks genre, but we can learn from the master pick up artists. While we may not agree with their possibly unromantic notions regarding sex, they have the seduction game down to a science. Learn the game from them but don't necessarily emulate them.
How to Get Laid Like a Rock Star
Fast Seduction 101: Art of Pick-up and Seduction
MEN ARE LIKE FISH: What Every Woman Needs To Know About Catching A Man - a free ebook for women that I have not read
Miscellaneous
Men's Groups are a way for guys to show emotional vulnerability with other men, reducing the need for a girlfriend as the only source of emotional intimacy.
The TLC Trust: connecting disabled men & women to responsible sex workers, therapists, & teachers. My sex surrogate page has more links.
Coping: A Survival Guide for People with Asperger Syndrome
Using the Myers Briggs Type Indicator love-shys are almost universally in the INxx quadrant. This page describes the INTP type in depth.
Love-shys usually have much shame related to their sexuality. Shame Solutions is inspirational, although it focuses on physical and sexual abuse rather than the emotional abuse many love-shys experience.
For those taking a SSRI drug (Prozac, Lexapro, Paxil, etc.) be aware of possible violent side effects during immediate SSRI withdrawl.
Intercourse and Intelligence presents a study showing that increased intelligence corresponds to a decrease in sexual activity among teenagers.
